the Guardian
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25th August 2022
The pregnancy prescription: ‘I was told a baby might cure my chronic pain. I was sold a lie’
I was 14 the first time a doctor told me that having a baby would be the solution to the debilitating, menstrual cycle-centred pain that consumed me every month.
I was also told that I would struggle to get pregnant. In the face of my unrelenting pain, this advice, and the warnings, would be given to me repeatedly by health professionals over the next 20 years.
I was naive going into pregnancy. There are innumerable ways in which having a baby is a crash course in the unexpected, but topping m